Dealing with a long distance relationship is not that facile compared to those couples who never tried to be apart from their partner. I want you to know as soon as you surpassed all of these, everything will always be worth the wait.
You will get despise at first but sooner or later you’ll get used to it. Passing by into other couples would make you feel bad to the point that it would even make you miss them more.
But darling it’s okay.
You’ll see each other soon.
You will be having different timezones, months of having too many adjustments and days of wishing & hoping that he/she’s right beside you. Don’t be discouraged with your doubts. Instead of worrying, pray instead.
Darling, things will run smoothly if you trust one another.
You will be used to doing things alone. Getting along with yourself, watching movies and celebrating anniversaries/birthdays all by yourself.
I know how bad it feels.
It makes you sick, makes you miss them more.
Sometimes, you would just cry because you miss them so much and there’s nothing you can do about it but to wait instead.
Darling, cheer up. It’s temporary.
You’d get to do those things together soon.
You would now understand how being “patient” works.
You will understand the idea of waiting.
Time will kill you at times, that 3hours of the phone call would seem to be like 3minutes.
Darling, it’s okay.
That 3 hours is interim.
I don’t want you to dwell on that.
Focus on your goals, focus on your dreams.
Focus on your future together.
There will be petty fights and “get jealous” on small things.
At times, you will be troubled with your “what if’s”.
Don’t forget to settle things out before you both go to sleep.
Never do such thing that could hurt your partner’s emotions.
Instead of taking yourself out for a drink or be in a place where you could forget those things for a while, talk to your partner instead.
APOLOGIZE, UNDERSTAND AND SAY SORRY.
STAY FAITHFUL, STAY LOYAL.
Darling, I know how it feels but you have to be strong all throughout.
Darling, I want you to know that this is just a test. Love doesn’t have any boundaries. With you, both being away from one another would make you even realized how far your love can go.
Even if others will tell you that it won’t work,
I WANT YOU TO FOCUS ON THE COMMITMENT YOU BOTH HAVE AND IGNORE THOSE NEGATIVE INSTINCTS.
For it is your story.
I had always admired couples who are into LDR. Although, some of them work and some of them didn’t. I’ve witnessed some of my friends struggling but never took the chance of giving up.
IT TAKES A LOT OF HARDWORK. REAL HARDWORK.
But believe me, no one can repay the feeling once you surpassed all of these.
LDR is temporary, keep in mind that you will be under one roof together soon.
So hold on, stay strong.
Someone who wishes that you will remain strong no matter how tough the situation may be ❤️